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Attract your crushes
Steps
- Make sure they know who you are. If your crush has no idea you exist, it's going to be harder to attract him. Try to get to know each other. You can do this by getting to be pally with his mates, joining a club he's in, or asking someone who knows him to introduce you two. If your crush is in your class, talk to him a little. You could comment on the teacher, the work you have to do, or make a joke when he's listening. It's scary, but you'll feel good once you make a move.
- Take an interest in his interests. This is a huge step towards attracting him. It doesn't mean you have to change your favourite band or what you do on the weekends-anything but. But if he likes a certain TV show, watch it a few times and chat about it-that kind of thing. Don't say anything negative about it-try to think positive, witty and funny things to say. It can be the smallest thing, but it could make a world of difference. A guy is more likely to be interested in a girl who draws manga too, or watched last nights episode of his favorite TV show, if that's what he's interested in.
- Make a little effort with how you look. Don't smother yourself with makeup or dye your hair-don't change who you are. Just make sure you look nice when you leave the house. Do your hair properly, not messy, and wear some clothes that make you feel beautiful. But remember that if you have to completely change the way you look to attract a guy, he's not worth it.
- Befriend him. Talk a little to your crush everyday, and make sure you have a good time. Try to make him laugh or strike up an interesting conversation-don't bore him to death. Don't flirt too much either, you might scare him off. Be nice to him-don't tease or harass him.
Tips
- Don't be slutty. Not impressive, and it'll give you a bad reputation.
- If you are going to make a joke, make sure it's funny and not cheesy. Try to make it on a subject he will be interested in and he will laugh at.
- Laugh at his jokes even if he says something that's not that funny. When you laugh he will look at you, so don't try and seem fake or too flirty.
- Be friendly! Remember to be positive and ask him simple questions like how he's going, and take an interest in what he says.
Warnings
- Don't allow yourself to put too much time into one guy. Sure, he may be cute, make you laugh, or whatever, but you have your whole life to devote to love if that's what you choose. Think about what you may be missing now, in this moment!
- Avoid being clingy, naggy, overly dependent on attention, and so on. Guys are attracted to a challenge, so tease them a bit.
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